{"id":26300,"date":"2026-11-12T09:53:20","date_gmt":"2026-11-12T09:53:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cehre.net\/?p=26300"},"modified":"2026-11-12T09:53:20","modified_gmt":"2026-11-12T09:53:20","slug":"woman-refuses-to-share-inheritance-fiance-throws-major-tantrum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cehre.net\/?p=26300","title":{"rendered":"Woman refuses to share inheritance, fianc\u00e9 throws major tantrum"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

A woman grappling with her five-year relationship turned to the online community for help following a heated argument with her fianc\u00e9.<\/strong>

The debate began over financial matters, and left her questioning the dynamics of their partnership.

In a candid post on Reddit\u2019s \u2018Am I The A*****e\u2018 thread, she shared her experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The 32-year-old woman, known as Original Poster (OP), wrote that she became engaged to her 35-year-old partner after five years together. After the proposal, the couple set their wedding date for May 2025.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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However, OP\u2019s grandmother died shortly after the engagement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

OP explains that her grandmother and grandfather had been \u201cvery successful\u201d and had high paying jobs for most of their lives. So, naturally, OP was left a \u201chugely generous\u201d sum of money. Though, this is where the trouble began.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWhen I heard the news, I told my fianc\u00e9 and he was incredibly overjoyed, much more than I expected him to be. I went along with it and shrugged it off until later in the day I heard him on the game with his mates saying \u2018I can pay my credit card off with that money mate! We can finally get that boys holiday we\u2019ve been planning, ay?\u2019 and laughing,\u201d OP wrote in her post.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She continued: \u201cI walked into the room and asked \u2018What money?\u2019 and he immediately looked at me funny and said \u2018From your nan, babe.’\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The woman said she \u201cimmediately exploded on him\u201d and told him he wouldn\u2019t be paying anything off without her permission, and that he definitely would not be using the money to pay for a boys\u2019 holiday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u2018It\u2019s not your money to have, it\u2019s written to me from MY nanna, it\u2019s not for you,’\u201d OP said she told her fianc\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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This eventually exploded into a shouting match, at which point OP wrote she left the room upset. Eventually, the fianc\u00e9 finished his game and came out to the kitchen to scold her, saying: \u201cWe are getting married, you will become my financial BURDEN. Any money you take in is mine also. It was incredibly selfish of you to make such a fool out of me in front of my friends and giving them false hope of a holiday.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In her post, the woman then wrote that she left the house without saying a word and went to stay at her friend\u2018s place. She concluded by asking whether she was being an a*****e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Following her post, the woman received an outpouring of empathy and solidarity from fellow online users.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cOk so he has shown you that he thinks of you as a burden and is planning on spending money that isn\u2019t actually his on his \u2018boys\u2019. And he\u2019s screaming at you because you won\u2019t fall in with his plans. You\u2019re nuts if you actually marry him,\u201d one person wrote.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another added: \u201cYou really want to marry this guy? There are 2 problems: 1. He assumed he\u2019s entitled to the money. 2. He assumed he can spend it on a discretionary item that does not include you. Pt2. is the bigger problem.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This user chimed in with: \u201cStop the wedding. Do not marry this guy. First, \u2026 wow he\u2019s got credit card debt he\u2019s never paid off? Living beyond his means is a HABIT. Second\u2026 what\u2019s his is his, and what\u2019s yours is his? Oh honey NO. Third\u2026 the rage? entitlement and DARVO \u2026 projecting you would be \u2018the burden\u2019 on him in the relationship? this man exhibits all the classic Narcissist tells.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They continued: \u201cYour grandparents last gift to you wasn\u2019t just the money, but the wisdom of who this guy really is underneath. No character, abusive, entitled, parasitic. Run.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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